Comments on: The I in Relationship

By: Wholestyle on the Web — Apples and Porsches

Wholestyle on the Web — Apples and Porsches — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 20:25:39 +0000

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By: Jaka's Tea Party - Dress up. Get down. Speak out.

Jaka's Tea Party - Dress up. Get down. Speak out. — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 03:03:16 +0000

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By: Birdie

Birdie — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 19:18:21 +0000

@Hayden – oh definitely… And he turned out to be *theone*, which is AWESOME!

By: Bonne Vie - Wholestyle on the Web: Week of 10/02/2009

Bonne Vie - Wholestyle on the Web: Week of 10/02/2009 — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 18:58:33 +0000

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By: Hayden Tompkins

Hayden Tompkins — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 18:48:40 +0000

I didn’t, I thought I was crazy! I’m all about the i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-c-e (do you know what I mean? ) so I was just completely floored by it.
.-= Hayden Tompkins´s last blog ..The Magic of Having Your Own Transformers =-.

By: Birdie

Birdie — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:24:54 +0000

@Michelle – this is true – the post honeymoon period is wonderful.

@Hayden – Some of that can be really good… but too much of that… I don’t know that I’d *like* hurting that bad if Mister went somewhere without me.

@Katie – Oooh… and that can be part of the independence thing.

@Amelia – That is so true. New friends, Old friends… Work situations, etc. It can happen in ANY circumstance.

Thanks for your replies, punkins! Truly insightful!

By: Amelia M

Amelia M — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:17:47 +0000

What a truly insightful post. I think that the message also rings true to a certain extent for friendships – sometimes we find ourselves giving an unreasonable amount to a friend and not necessarily looking after number one.
.-= Amelia M´s last blog ..What’s the time, Mr Wolf? 5 favourite watches. =-.

By: Katie

Katie — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:25:39 +0000

Great post! I have always kept my individuality in relationships but probably not so much when I was younger… What I need to keep in check when I’m in relationship-land is my controlling behaviour. Not to try and control my boyfriend eee the worst I don’t DIRECTLY try and control him but the outcome or sometimes I can be a bit of a control freak. It is good to always keep a check on yourself
Even when you’re married with children and middleage. You always need friends

By: Hayden Tompkins

Hayden Tompkins — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 12:56:56 +0000

Oh, man. I seriously think there was something wrong with me when I met Chris. I literally hurt in my heart being away from him. At least I wasn’t alone, he felt the same way but GAWD I wouldn’t go through that again for all the tea in China.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 00:47:35 +0000

I think so many women fall prey to this, especially in teenage years. I had a friend in high school who would be completely absorbed in her boyfriend as soon as they started dating, and then immediately move on to the next guy when she was bored and become equally absorbed in him.

There’s a lot to be said for the honeymoon period, but I like the post-honeymoon period even better, I think. All of the magic & wonderment, with less worrying about what you’re saying and doing.
.-= Michelle´s last blog ..Daily Outfit + Shopping Recap =-.